28 April 2010

Gone with the Wind...

There are storms, and there are storms.

The worst storm I've ever experienced just happened to come when my husband was away at the deer lease and the day before my son's 4th birthday party.  Timing is, after all, everything.

The weekend actually started off well.  Jackson, Sadie and I settled into my bed for movie night.  This was extra special for Sadie, because she almost always misses out on such events.  But she's growing up and the mere idea of getting to put on her "jamas" and eat "chawkwet" in bed were just this side of heaven in her book. We watched The Princess and the Frog on pay-per-view, then settled in for a good night's rest.  Sadie went to her bed, Jackson stayed in mine (For protection.  Because four year olds are very intimidating to burglars.)

In all the movie night festivities, I neglected to watch the news.  Or the weather.

Around 1:30, something jolted me out of my sleep.  I'm not sure what it was that woke me.  Maybe thunder.  Or wind.  Or the pomegranate tree knocking on our window.  Whatever it was, it wasn't terribly out of the ordinary.  We get wind quite a bit, and it always sounds worse than it really is.  But because I was alone with the kids, I didn't want to take any unnecessary chances.  I went to our closet and got out the weather radio at about the same moment that the lights went out.  Of course, being the prepared ones that we are, the batteries in the radio were dead.  I grabbed a flashlight and headed toward the battery drawer in the kitchen.  I think at this point I realized that the wind was much louder than normal--this wasn't the typical east Texas thunderstorm.  As I crossed through the living room, I began to hear what I knew was hail hitting the windows.   I looked out to see what I could see in the darkness.  That's when I noticed the absence of our trampoline.

I quickened my pace.

The playhouse in our back yard was also not as it should be.

Panic set in.

I took the batteries (that of course weren't fitting as they should) and the radio back to my room and tried to fix it in there.  Near my son, who was still sound asleep.  I touched his leg at one point, considering the idea of waking him and Sadie and moving into a closet.  I stopped before he woke up, because in my mind waking him--my boy who already seems to have enough nightmares--might do more harm than good.  When the radio finally came on,  I could find nothing that would tell me what was going on outside my four walls.  The wind seemed to be dying down, but how could I be sure?  I decided at that point to get Sadie.  I had to laugh a little when I walked into her room.  There she sat, in the dark, wide-eyed and relieved to see me.  But she wasn't scared.  She would ask me periodically, "What's that sound?" But otherwise she was fine.

By the time we got back to the weather radio, it was clear that the worst was over.  When I finally found Mark Scirto on the radio, I knew we'd been through something significant, but we were safe.  There was talk of straight-line winds, possible tornadoes, and hail. My sister and my mother-in-law had been texting me, checking on us and any damage.  My parents were away on a cruise, so there was no way to know what damage had been done at their house, although it appeared everything was in one piece. 

Around 5:00, Kim and Jed came with a spotlight to survey the damage.  Sadie enjoyed telling them about the wind. It was all very exciting to her.  Jed drove around to see where the trampoline might've landed.  Judging by the state of the playhouse, I figured the trampoline must have used it as a ramp.  But it was no where in sight.

Did I mention that Jackson never once woke up?

Sadie and I finally settled down to try and go back to sleep.  It was a new experience for her.  She's never slept in our bed before.  She would lay there, perfectly still, and pat my face.  Occasionally, she would say, "Momma?  You sleep?"  Then she would laugh when I would open my eyes.  We finally managed to find sleep around 5:45.  With the windows up, it was cool in the room.  With no electricity, it was more than quiet.  Considering the night we'd had, it was good sleeping weather.

When we all got up the next morning, we realized that Jackson's birthday party would not be happening.  All our entertainment had blown away!  Not only was the trampoline still MIA, but the play house was in a few pieces and laying all over the "rock sandbox."  To me, it looked beyond repair.

Kevin called to check on us as soon as he saw a text I sent him during the night.  He offered to come home and fix the playhouse in time for the party.  I just didn't want that stress for him or myself.  He just didn't know what he was coming home to.  The party would wait. It turned out to be a good decision, because the woman making the cake was without electricity as well.

And we didn't get electricity until Tuesday.  Let me just say a huge "THANK YOU" to whomever invented the generator.

Later in the morning, we got on the RTV and went in search of the trampoline and to survey the damage around the rest of the property.  The trampoline--what didn't fall off in flight--landed in the lake. 

While there were large trees down in several spots, we had no severe property damage.  My parents' ranch hand, Drew, spent the better part of a day cleaning up the hundreds of sticks that blew down in their yard, but considering the huge pecan trees that surround their house, it could have been so much worse.  People in Van had quite a bit more damage than we did, but again, it could have been so much worse.

But we learned a few things along the way.  First, the only thing my kids missed was being able to watch TV whenever they wanted.  Second, once I explained (a few hundred times) that the electricity was off, they usually found other ways to amuse themselves.  Third, sleeping with the window open is pretty great.  And last, but most certainly not least, we were blessed.  When I think about the fact that a wind strong enough to blow our trampoline 200 yards away swept through our back yard not 20 feet away from where we slept...I know God's hand protected us.  We are blessed.

21 April 2010

Birthday Boy!

Since Eli's birthday party in November, all Jackson has talked about for celebrating his own birthday was going to Chuck E. Cheese. Now, personally, I don't mind the place. But I love the fact that his birthday falls in that perfect window of pleasant Texas weather, and I hated the idea of celebrating his birthday indoors. I just didn't know how I was going to convince him of that. So instead, we compromised.

On the evening of his actual birthday, we took him and his oldest buddies (Foster, Eli and Reed) to Chuck E. Cheese for pizza. We told him that this wasn't his real party, but just a fun time for him and his friends (and of course, his sister). They had a blast. The only tense moments occurred when the guy in the Chuck E. costume came out. Let's just say that Jackson, Sadie and his buddy Foster aren't fans. Not. At. All. As long as they had him in their sights, and as long as he stayed far, far away, all was well. (Foster was keeping an eye out in the picture below) :)

These boys have been a part of Jackson's life since he was very, very small. Eli is his cousin and hero; Foster was his first real friend (they have such similar personalities it's easy to see why); and Reed belongs to my good friend Janet--so they have to be friends! ;) Luckily for us, they like each other a whole bunch too.

This picture below shows how hard it is to get four 3-4 year olds to smile at the camera at the same time! Love it! And this last picture shows the vast difference between our two children. The tunnel at Chuck E. Cheese is still mostly a mystery to Jackson, because he refuses to climb too far. Sadie, on the other hand, knows very little fear.

It's still hard for me to believe that my baby boy is four. He is growing and changing so much every day. We have conversations on a regular basis now. He tells me about his friends. He tells me what episode of "Batman" he wants to watch. He laughs at my jokes and makes up jokes of his own, most of which involve poop, diapers, and babies. He loves superheroes. He is a little bossy to his little sister, but he also loves her to pieces and plays well with her most of the time. He has a fear of growing, and I think it's because he thinks his friends won't grow along with him...and he loves his friends. He is sweet and funny and kind-hearted...and we are so blessed that God chose us to raise him.













15 April 2010

Another day, another five loads of laundry...

On the days when we have no where to go, one of the kids' favorite pastimes is playing superheroes. Sadie usually needs nothing more than her brother's permission to play along. Jackson almost always needs a superhero costume. We have a decent supply--Superman, Spiderman, SuperRobot (actually, it's an astronaut costume, but since Jackson got it a couple of years ago, he's called it his robot costume because it's easier to pronounce than astronaut), along with various capes, masks and other superhero necessities. And while they use the costumes pretty regularly, he just as regularly makes up his own version of a superhero costume.
Like this one:

Now, I know what you're thinking. There is no superhero costume here. Silly reader. If you look closely, you'll see all the components of a true superhero costume: a cape, shirt, "run-fast shoes," pants, and raincoat (okay, so I don't get the raincoat either. It's got superheroes on it. Don't judge.). Admittedly, I was confused about the underwear over the pants. That's when my son explained to me in his "oh, my poor feeble minded mother" voice that ALL superheroes wear their underwear over their pants. Duh. Very observant, that boy of mine.

14 April 2010

Springtime in Reedville

The past couple of months at the Reed hacienda have been full of adventures, starting with a Spring Break road trip. We ended the week prior to the break thinking we were going to spend most of the week at home, but Kevin had some work come up in Houston, so we decided to go with him! Our first stop was the Downtown Aquarium. The kids loved seeing all the fish, but sight seeing after a four hour car ride is asking a little much. Jackson refused to get within five feet of the giant shark, but Sadie thought it was pretty great. This picture is my favorite, but I have one of her giving it a kiss.
We had a great time in Houston. We got to visit with some of Kevin's old friends, and the kids grew pretty fond of staying in a "hotel house". Kevin had to use the car for business, so we didn't get to see as much as we would've liked, but we had a great time at the pool!


At the end of the break, we made the trek to our next hotel house in Austin for the state basketball tournament--a family tradition. (Yes I love going. No I don't watch any games.) The highlight of this part of the journey was at the mall. Not a visit to the Easter bunny...nooo...we don't do six foot faux creatures (although the bunny was awfully cute and we did walk by many, many times to wave--from a reasonable distance, of course), so a picture from the adorable backdrop was as good as it got. But these same children--the very ones that refused to step into the Easter bunny's lair--LOVED the bungee trampoline.


Jackson has jumped at the mall in Tyler a few times, so as soon as he saw the set up, he started begging Nannie to let him jump (yeah, like begging was even remotely necessary). Sadie kept saying, "I jump too!!" So we let Sadie go first. She's jumped before too, but the guy at this particular place was pretty tame. She loved it all the same...until she saw Jackson jump. As soon as Sadie finished the man running the show (who, by the way, spoke very little English and according to Jackson "didn't know how to turn flips.") strapped Jackson into the harness. Keep in mind that Sadie barely went six feet in the air. Jackson told the man he wanted to go high, and he got exactly what he wanted! (That railing is for the second floor of the mall. Please address all the "what kind of mother allows her children to be catapoulted fifteen feet in the air" mail to my mother. I was just the photographer.) Suffice it to say, Jackson had a blast. After seeing Jackson jump, Sadie was not happy at all. Not even a little bit. She wanted to go high too. And she let us know it. For the rest. Of. The. Day.

So I did what all good parents do. I bribed her. If she would be a good girl the rest of the day, we would come back and she could jump high. Jackson was totally bought in because he knew that if Sadie was getting a second round of jumping, so would he. Sadie was a saint for the remainder of our shopping excursion. When we returned to the jumping thing, she told the man herself, "I GO HIGH." And did she ever! People stopped to watch--and maybe call CPS--and she put on quite a show. She laughed and kicked her legs and was NOT ready for the ride to be over. We ended up jumping again the next day. Adrenaline junkies? Maybe. But we still didn't get near the Easter bunny!




Speaking of Easter...our Easter weekend was full of egg hunt after egg hunt, and the kids loved every minute of it! We started with Jackson's egg hunt at Sunshine Friends. It was so much fun getting to watch him have such a great time with his buddies. He loves school and all his teachers--especially Mrs. Kelli!







Saturday we went to the city egg hunt at the Van Oil Museum. The kids made a "fashionable entrance," and attracted the attention of their many admirers (haha)...that kid with his arm around Sadie? She had no idea who he was. (I did, and I figure he will either play professional football or end up a rock star, so I'm okay with her getting acquainted)...




Last year we were a little confused about what "eggs" to pick up (they only put out a few prize eggs...the rest are candy eggs and candy bunnies)...my kids are very literal, so the fact that there weren't any real eggs lying around caused a bit of a slow start. This year, though, was a totally different story! Both kids got a ton of eggage, and Jackson even came in 2nd for his age group (he was robbed in my opinion, but that's another story!). Both kids also enjoyed exploring the grounds of the Oil Museum with their Dado, who had a story about quite a few of the pieces of equipment!












Then came Easter morning. As you can see, Sadie loved her Easter basket! Jackson was equally pleased to find out that the E.B. somehow knew that putting Green Arrow in his basket would be a wonderful surprise!


We spent the afternoon and evening with family. We tried to take family pictures, but all my children were interested in doing was playing. So the more pictures we took, the more disagreeable they got! Finally we waved the flag of surrender and let them have their fun; oddly enough, those turned out to be the best pictures of the day!
We spent the remainder of the day hunting eggs, seesawing, and playing in the sandbox. The game of the day was called "let's see how much sand Sadie's hair will hold." She was as big a fan of the game as the boys, and it turns out her hair will hold a LOT of sand. Like, three days' worth.
But it was still a good, good day.